This poem/diary entry was submitted by a reader, who asked that I keep her submission anonymous.
I'm more than pretty hair and a fat ass.
I'm only viewed as a sexual object.
Unfortunately, It took me a few years to figure this out.
I'm out on a date with a man who used his hands to let me know how much he respected me.
Touching me while telling me he wants to settle down with me and marry me.
Since when did unwanted touching become acceptable,
it is not.
In a day and age of feminism, - where you, 'use your sex - to control whomever', I just want to get to know you.
I'm wondering why he has to touch me on my back, hair, head, thighs, to express himself.
I don't grab your penis to express myself. I say stop touching me, I smile a little to try and stop the uncomfortableness I feel.
Speaking with your hands is one thing, touching me continuously when i have said stop, is another. I don't want that.
A first date shouldn't consist of telling him, 'stop touching me'.
When did you become so bold and confident that 'tickling', poking, touching me was ok.
My thighs are off limits, why do I have to tell you this?
I laugh on the outside, but inside I'm saddened that conversation is no longer first date protocol.
I see that my fat ass is only seen as a conquest.
They (he) don't want to get to know my brain,
they only want me to suck their brains
and f*ck my brains out.
It didn't used to be this way.
But now it is this way.
Men are no longer men, but boys.
Boys know they outnumber women,
So the boys do what they do,
f*ck their way through life,
hurting the women who want more than f*cking, into sad miserable bitter lives.
Move on to the next one my best friend says,
Everyone is wired differently.
Some people deal with this behavior, by drinking, smoking, random sexual partners,
to dull the pain.
If you allow them to destroy you, they have all the power.
There is power in saying No.
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